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First Boyfriend
For those of you who have been in relationships before, I’m sure you remember your first boyfriend. Maybe you thought you two were going to be together forever, soul mate, that they were the most attractive person you’ve seen. These are all theories. We all have our own feelings and thoughts towards someone you want…
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“Friend-zoning” Decisions and Reactions
How many of you have been “friend-zoned” by someone that you were hoping would develop into something more serious? How did you react? Were you offended? Do you still communicate with that person? These are questions I’d be very interested to hear from other gay guys. I personally don’t believe that you can make an…
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Seeing is Believing…Meeting in Public For Hook-ups First.
Surely by now, some of you already have a system down as to how and where you meet guys for a hookup. Maybe you go over to their place, or they come over to your place first. While I’m sure it’s not anything to toss and turn all night about, meeting in a public setting…
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Friends With Benefits With Feelings
Starting in March, I had met someone on Grinder (I know, classy) and eventually went to meet up with this guy. He invited me over to his apartment, which thinking back to previous invites, statistically speaking would probably end in an hook up for the night. So I went over to his house, with that…
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Save Yourself the Disappointment and Learn to Expect or Assume Nothing
The title says it all. It took me several months to figure this out, but this has been my saving grace since I started utilizing it. I used to go into a meet up with hopes that it will develop into at least a friendship. This did not happen as frequently as I had hoped…
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That Lustful Vibe
About five months have gone by since I moved to Portland. Many things, regarding my personal life, have happened and I am thankful for both the good and the bad. When it comes to meeting up/going on dates with guys, it doesn’t take too long to figure out what their intentions may be. Though I…
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Alright, let me know when you want to hang out…
I moved to Portland about 3 months ago and the one of the things I was looking forward to was making friends. I’ve never lived in a city this large before and with all the online apps that a lot of people are on now a days, I figured it would be pretty easy. I’ve…
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The First Cut is the Deepest
Someone is bound to do it. Whether you are straight, gay, bi, transsexual, whatever. Someone is going to break your heart at some point in your life. I mentioned before that I do not have much relationship experience. One, I came out recently to my friends and family. Two, I am still new to the…
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Judgemental guys
At this point in my life, I don’t think I can accurately say what type of guy I am interested in. I have had dates with guys who are relaxed and not flamboyant, and I have had dates with guys who are very flamboyant. I am not using the word “flamboyant” as a negative connotation,…
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The current issue: getting nowhere
Let’s me just throw this out there because even though it’s completely irrelevant, some of you are deep down curious. I’m 25, a virgin and have never (I mean that legitimately) been in a relationship before, with a girl or guy. My first kiss by a guy was a few weeks ago, not realizing the…
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