Surely by now, some of you already have a system down as to how and where you meet guys for a hookup. Maybe you go over to their place, or they come over to your place first. While I’m sure it’s not anything to toss and turn all night about, meeting in a public setting is the safest way to meet someone in my opinion. I’m not typically worried about there being a threat going over to someones house, but what I am worried about is how outdated their photos are or if they are lying all-together about who they are. How awkward would it be to show up at someones house and they are 40lbs heavier than they portrayed themselves and 10 years older? Kind of a disappointment, yes? It’s dishonesty at its finest in order to get messages from guys.
I’ve had that happen to me once. Fortunately I did not go over to his house or he come over to my house. We met in a public setting. When I went to meet him, he was (later after talking with him) 20-30lbs more than he stated and he posted his age as several years younger. The photo he posted was 14 years ago and not surprisingly that was his stereotypical torso shot. Some people might not be against putting a younger age on their profile because they will get more responses from other guys. In all reality, yes, it’s just a number, but you’re being dishonest right off the bat. Own your age, whether you are 35 or 67. There’s no shame in your age. Most of us will get old too and the younger guys are not going to respond either. It all boils down to preference.
Because of my experiences with meeting guys online, I highly recommend to any and everyone to meet in a public setting first. It may seem inconvenient, but it may also save you in an awkward situation. These are my two cents.
Naturalist Kamera | 